Letting go

Sometimes, all you need is to let go of what has haunt you in the past or gives too much comfort and learn to refocus your goals in life.

Letting go of ex love is really just damn painful at times, and the best cure which most people hate to know is time. Give time to heal and let go. Maybe the good memories of the past is comforting and well, makes you feel special too. That is the painful part, after a relationship collapse, there's no way that feeling would ever be there on a two way basis. But instead of letting go, clinging it makes you feel happy and at the same time miserable.

Rebounds also occur. A rebound crush. A rebound relationship. Some people jump straight to another 'romantic' relationship just to not feel 'empty'. Sometimes, we are just so blinded by the past relationship that we thought being in another right after would work. Sadly, it won't.

A rebound crush on the other hand is more of like thinking another person likes/has a crush on you and you suddenly decided that you do like the person too. This only ends in 2 ways. One is that you find out your crush doesn't like you and he/she founds out you have a crush on them. This sucks because, well, things get pretty awkward and the friendship is just scarred. The other way is that you found he likes someone else. Which also just breaks you again.

Either way, coming to your senses is still a better choice. Like what am I now. Knowing its just all bullshit what you are feeling now and just let go before doing anything ridiculous.

Goodbye old feelings. I need a new one for a new chapter.